2 立恒，生日快乐！♥

D.D.，想在部落格里给你祝福，呵呵。。

转眼间就到你二十一岁生日咯 嘻嘻，你成年了~

虽然我们的fyp遇到重重困难，不过再过一个小时半，你人生大日子就到了。

希望你暂时抛开眼前的烦恼与压力，好好地享受明天的欢乐

而且我也相信这一切都会过去的，而我们也一定可以熬过去！

在这祝你身体健康，学业进步，心想事成。♥

送你一些视觉上的享受，哈哈

生日快乐噢，Happy Birthday!

爱你噢~

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-wz27kG5Trg&feature=related

0 知足是幸福的起點--聖嚴法師

I've just read an article which i think i learn a lot from there. So..i copy paste the whole article from facebook as i wish to keep it forever =) and of course, to remind myself always..APPRECIATE!

知足是幸福的起點

幸福是每個人都希望得到的，但在追求的過程中，有多少人漏失了唾手可得的幸福？又有多少人身在福中不知福？很多人窮盡一生的心力追求幸福，換來的卻只是白髮蒼蒼和一聲聲的唏噓，這都是因為他們不明白幸福的真諦。

雖然財富、健康、名位、權勢都是一般人所喜愛的，但這些並不等於幸福。幸福的真諦應該是「平安就是福」，能不能夠平安雖然和外在環境有關係，但是決定性的關鍵，還是在於主觀的自我心態—如果自己的心態能平安、知足，就是幸福；如果不知足，要獲得幸福就很難。

真正的知足是「多也知足，少也知足，沒有也知足」，這是平安常樂 的基本條件。不過，「多也知足」還容易理解，「少也知足」和「沒有也知足」就很難體會了。一般人大概會覺得納悶：「東西都不夠用了，要怎麼知足呢？更何況當什麼都沒有時，講知足不是很奇怪嗎？」 其實，東西多不一定就能滿足，因為世界上沒有一樣東西是真正、絕對的多，所有的「多」都是透過相對、比較而來的。而且，即使真的擁有很多，既不可能永恆不變，也不可能永遠維持正面的成長。所以，當「有」的時候就應該知足，至於「少」或「沒有」也是一樣，因為「少」或「沒有」都可能是「有」的開始。

因此，無論將來「有」或「沒有」，都一樣要努力，不要和別人比較、不要和過去比較、也不要和未來比較。只要活著，就要憑自己的心力來做事，如果做錯了事，就要懂得懺悔、反省；如果做得不夠好，就要繼續努力把它做好、力求完美，以求不愧於天、地及自己的良心，這就叫做「知足」。

我常常向弟子們講一個比喻：「不知足的人就像生活在米缸裡的老鼠， 不知道自己的身邊都是可以吃的米，卻在米缸裡撒尿、拉屎，把米缸弄髒了，才又跳出去找東西吃。不但身在福中不知福，還糟蹋了自己的福報。」例如，雖然在禪堂裡有很好的環境供大家修行，還有老師指導修行方法，但是很多人仍然想著：「這個方法不好、這個修行場地很差、我的身體很不舒服……」，用這些藉口來拖延自己的修行，不就像是米缸裡的老鼠嗎？ 因為缺乏感恩、知足的心，得到利益以後不但不會滿足，而且還會嫌棄別人把不要的東西送給他們，這就是身在福中不知福。此外，我們也要常常想到，自己的福報是從過去生中帶來的。所以，這一生要好好的惜福、培福，不要糟蹋了自己的福報。

一個真正知足的人，能夠瞭解「進退自如」的道理。退的時候，他不會怨天尤人，也不會認為是老天瞎了眼、自己生不逢時；進的時候，他則會心懷感謝地想：「如果不是我過去修來的福報，就是別人對我太好了。因為得到許多人的幫助，我現在才能這麼順利，無論得多、得少我都很感激。」

所以，一個人如果不培福、惜福，卻老是在享福，福報就會愈來愈少， 幸福的日子總有結束的一天。一個懂得知足、惜福、培福的人，當遭逢逆境時不會抱怨，在一帆風順時則懂得感謝，無論何時何地都感到心滿意足，才是個真正幸福的人。

1 Time Flies~

Hey..don't you think time pass very fast? One and a half week later i will proceed to year 3 (hope and assume that i can proceed to year 3 smoothly..=.= as result not release yet).
Honestly, it's unbelievable that I'm gonna graduate and I can say that one of my foot has stepped into the working world!
arrhggg..not enough..it's really not enough...my semester break is really short..i feel it's not enough to refresh me back..I'm still blurring in "enjoying" my holiday...
I really don't know what happen to me..the brain like to think negatively often..about everything..zzz..can i change my brain har? just want to delete the negative thinking..
zzzz...frankly I'm not motivated to face the new semester yet..but I hardly hope that I'm fully motivated when the uni reopen..pls...give me the power..I need it so much
and..pls give me the power to calm me down..to think carefully..what is my real "fire" hide inside me..
haha..because i learned from a hk drama..he said everyone owns 一把火, the fire which equal to his desire or dream..I think i know what is MY fire..=)
In fb, I always say that we should appreciate everything besides us..so..I wish i could do it in the coming semester.
Isshh....it's quite shameful...1 sem 1 post...but I can tell u that I really don't have free time to write blog..or may be i was too lazy xD
btw, I hope everyone can proceed to year 3 smoothly..^v^ and throw 四方帽 together!!
p/s: not sure when I'll update my blog..depends on my mood^^

0 Very Impatient!!

Is it my facebook attacked by virus?? anyone can help me?
i cannot leave comments, read others' comments n even post my status...isshhh...
it has last for almost 1 day...
sien larr.....

2 Merry Christmas!

2009 christmas for me is a very simple christmas

on christmas eve, i stayed at home..didn't hang out with friends..
on christmas, that is today..im staying at home too..oh ya..i went to the doctor as well..to look for... (hmn..i think i better keep it as secret..although it is not serious..haha)
okok..let's talk about my christmas eve dinner, i had a dinner with my parents at Lana after closing shop
here are the pictures of the turkey dish that was ordered by my lovely mommy

guess what? It's not so nice actually....i had high expectation for it but at last it ended up with a same sentence by everyone of us ---> "It's so hard and dry!"
the bread & the soup are nice, though. The soup is something like mushroom soup in pizza hut..and this dish costs RM15... i don't know whether it's worthy or not...would like to hear from u guys' answers =)
around 10pm before v got to leave, there were 2 adults n 1 kid in santa claus costume distributing presents to ppl who were having dinner..

from him, we got 2 christmas hat n 1 cup...that cup is the gift from Darlie toothpaste..LOL.....but, it is good to have than don't have right??
lastly, i'd like to share a comic with u guys..just for fun...hahax

Merry Christmas comments

**~MERRY CHRISTMAS~**

7 La la la la....

Final exam is coming...I've to study hard..since there are 12 chapters for ITM..

I hope i can finish it by next thur..hopefully

so..i won't update my blog for 1 month i think..

as after exam..I'll going to penang on 2oth of dec..kaka

hope everyone can score well in these 2 papers! **wink

Gambateh! Bahsya!!

7 能吃，能睡，能笑

昨晚，我出席了开顺法师的开示，题目是 《我要考第一名》。在这佛学讲座里，我受益不浅。它的内容主要是围绕着我们的人生道理。最精彩的是，《我要考第一名》原来与学业一点关系都没有。它所要表达的讯息是.......只有在这一句子内，仔细听哦 =)

“当人家骂我时，我不生气，就是第一名”

很有意思吧？嘻嘻....

除此之外，师父也说，人家讲你、骂你、不爽你时，那是他有问题，不是你有问题，所以不需自找烦恼。

还有，师父要我们当场唱，“听妈妈的话，别让她受伤，想快快长大，才能保护她”。

师父说我们其实不是说听妈妈的话就代表孝顺。孝顺=自爱，我们自爱，不入邪途，不让父母担心，那才是真正的孝顺！

这些software是要实践的，空谈无用。

所以，我的人生目标是：能吃，能睡，能笑 。

师父说工作目的与人生目标并不一样，所以我们别混淆哦。