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I found my lovely sentimental songs~~

2010-09-18T07:49:00.000-07:00

Though i'm asking myself to write this post in English, but i do feel like bringing it out in Chinese. (sound so serious huh about this post?ＬＯＬ)

By now, i should be striving hard for the 2 killing papers, but somehow i'm blogging here.
By now, i should be sleeping very tight like a blue pig, but somehow i'm standing the tiredness.

issshhh..let's continue this post with English..as i'm too lazy to delete what i've written also. zzzzz...just give me alot of "=.= face....

haha..suddenly i felt myself is writing nonsense here..by the way, i'm writting this post to share my favorite songs.

I found her and i found it-王儷婷 Olivia Ong and her album. Wait..it should be i found it and i found her because i know her by her songs first..don't even know how she looks like. Here is she, what a pretty Singaporean singer =)

Recently i fall in love with her songs..especially the song which is playing in my blog.."Sometimes when We Touch". I can be nonstop listening to this song...repeat and repeat..without getting bored with it..it just..my soul..i feel it...

Besides that, some songs like "Fly Me to the Moon", "True Color" and "Kiss Me" are recommended. Her voice is so nicely and softly. You will be very relax and feel comfortably when listening to her songs. So, just try to grab her album at any store. You will fall in love with her too. Yet, i didn't buy her album. But, i will buy it one day ^^

Hmn...i think i should continue my study. Should i? yes...for sure~ or may be i should go to bed now..as it's quite late already..11.33pm...for me...keke...

Good night everyone~ ^^

Wait, to share with you guys, feel free to log on to this link =)
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Olivia-Ong/41155493643?v=wall

立恒，生日快乐！♥

2010-08-02T07:28:00.000-07:00

D.D.，想在部落格里给你祝福，呵呵。。

转眼间就到你二十一岁生日咯嘻嘻，你成年了~

虽然我们的fyp遇到重重困难，不过再过一个小时半，你人生大日子就到了。

希望你暂时抛开眼前的烦恼与压力，好好地享受明天的欢乐

而且我也相信这一切都会过去的，而我们也一定可以熬过去！

在这祝你身体健康，学业进步，心想事成。♥

送你一些视觉上的享受，哈哈

生日快乐噢，Happy Birthday!

爱你噢~

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-wz27kG5Trg&feature=related

知足是幸福的起點--聖嚴法師

2010-07-10T05:14:00.000-07:00

I've just read an article which i think i learn a lot from there. So..i copy paste the whole article from facebook as i wish to keep it forever =) and of course, to remind myself always..APPRECIATE!

知足是幸福的起點

幸福是每個人都希望得到的，但在追求的過程中，有多少人漏失了唾手可得的幸福？又有多少人身在福中不知福？很多人窮盡一生的心力追求幸福，換來的卻只是白髮蒼蒼和一聲聲的唏噓，這都是因為他們不明白幸福的真諦。

雖然財富、健康、名位、權勢都是一般人所喜愛的，但這些並不等於幸福。幸福的真諦應該是「平安就是福」，能不能夠平安雖然和外在環境有關係，但是決定性的關鍵，還是在於主觀的自我心態—如果自己的心態能平安、知足，就是幸福；如果不知足，要獲得幸福就很難。

真正的知足是「多也知足，少也知足，沒有也知足」，這是平安常樂的基本條件。不過，「多也知足」還容易理解，「少也知足」和「沒有也知足」就很難體會了。一般人大概會覺得納悶：「東西都不夠用了，要怎麼知足呢？更何況當什麼都沒有時，講知足不是很奇怪嗎？」其實，東西多不一定就能滿足，因為世界上沒有一樣東西是真正、絕對的多，所有的「多」都是透過相對、比較而來的。而且，即使真的擁有很多，既不可能永恆不變，也不可能永遠維持正面的成長。所以，當「有」的時候就應該知足，至於「少」或「沒有」也是一樣，因為「少」或「沒有」都可能是「有」的開始。

因此，無論將來「有」或「沒有」，都一樣要努力，不要和別人比較、不要和過去比較、也不要和未來比較。只要活著，就要憑自己的心力來做事，如果做錯了事，就要懂得懺悔、反省；如果做得不夠好，就要繼續努力把它做好、力求完美，以求不愧於天、地及自己的良心，這就叫做「知足」。

我常常向弟子們講一個比喻：「不知足的人就像生活在米缸裡的老鼠，不知道自己的身邊都是可以吃的米，卻在米缸裡撒尿、拉屎，把米缸弄髒了，才又跳出去找東西吃。不但身在福中不知福，還糟蹋了自己的福報。」例如，雖然在禪堂裡有很好的環境供大家修行，還有老師指導修行方法，但是很多人仍然想著：「這個方法不好、這個修行場地很差、我的身體很不舒服……」，用這些藉口來拖延自己的修行，不就像是米缸裡的老鼠嗎？因為缺乏感恩、知足的心，得到利益以後不但不會滿足，而且還會嫌棄別人把不要的東西送給他們，這就是身在福中不知福。此外，我們也要常常想到，自己的福報是從過去生中帶來的。所以，這一生要好好的惜福、培福，不要糟蹋了自己的福報。

一個真正知足的人，能夠瞭解「進退自如」的道理。退的時候，他不會怨天尤人，也不會認為是老天瞎了眼、自己生不逢時；進的時候，他則會心懷感謝地想：「如果不是我過去修來的福報，就是別人對我太好了。因為得到許多人的幫助，我現在才能這麼順利，無論得多、得少我都很感激。」

所以，一個人如果不培福、惜福，卻老是在享福，福報就會愈來愈少，幸福的日子總有結束的一天。一個懂得知足、惜福、培福的人，當遭逢逆境時不會抱怨，在一帆風順時則懂得感謝，無論何時何地都感到心滿意足，才是個真正幸福的人。

Time Flies~

2010-05-19T04:07:00.000-07:00

Hey..don't you think time pass very fast? One and a half week later i will proceed to year 3 (hope and assume that i can proceed to year 3 smoothly..=.= as result not release yet).
Honestly, it's unbelievable that I'm gonna graduate and I can say that one of my foot has stepped into the working world!
arrhggg..not enough..it's really not enough...my semester break is really short..i feel it's not enough to refresh me back..I'm still blurring in "enjoying" my holiday...
I really don't know what happen to me..the brain like to think negatively often..about everything..zzz..can i change my brain har? just want to delete the negative thinking..
zzzz...frankly I'm not motivated to face the new semester yet..but I hardly hope that I'm fully motivated when the uni reopen..pls...give me the power..I need it so much
and..pls give me the power to calm me down..to think carefully..what is my real "fire" hide inside me..
haha..because i learned from a hk drama..he said everyone owns 一把火, the fire which equal to his desire or dream..I think i know what is MY fire..=)
In fb, I always say that we should appreciate everything besides us..so..I wish i could do it in the coming semester.
Isshh....it's quite shameful...1 sem 1 post...but I can tell u that I really don't have free time to write blog..or may be i was too lazy xD
btw, I hope everyone can proceed to year 3 smoothly..^v^ and throw 四方帽 together!!
p/s: not sure when I'll update my blog..depends on my mood^^

Very Impatient!!

2010-01-14T21:08:00.000-08:00

Is it my facebook attacked by virus?? anyone can help me?
i cannot leave comments, read others' comments n even post my status...isshhh...
it has last for almost 1 day...
sien larr.....

Merry Christmas!

2009-12-25T03:23:00.000-08:00

2009 christmas for me is a very simple christmas

on christmas eve, i stayed at home..didn't hang out with friends..
on christmas, that is today..im staying at home too..oh ya..i went to the doctor as well..to look for... (hmn..i think i better keep it as secret..although it is not serious..haha)
okok..let's talk about my christmas eve dinner, i had a dinner with my parents at Lana after closing shop
here are the pictures of the turkey dish that was ordered by my lovely mommy

guess what? It's not so nice actually....i had high expectation for it but at last it ended up with a same sentence by everyone of us ---> "It's so hard and dry!"
the bread & the soup are nice, though. The soup is something like mushroom soup in pizza hut..and this dish costs RM15... i don't know whether it's worthy or not...would like to hear from u guys' answers =)
around 10pm before v got to leave, there were 2 adults n 1 kid in santa claus costume distributing presents to ppl who were having dinner..

from him, we got 2 christmas hat n 1 cup...that cup is the gift from Darlie toothpaste..LOL.....but, it is good to have than don't have right??
lastly, i'd like to share a comic with u guys..just for fun...hahax

Merry Christmas comments

**~MERRY CHRISTMAS~**

La la la la....

2009-12-05T07:37:00.000-08:00

Final exam is coming...I've to study hard..since there are 12 chapters for ITM..

I hope i can finish it by next thur..hopefully

so..i won't update my blog for 1 month i think..

as after exam..I'll going to penang on 2oth of dec..kaka

hope everyone can score well in these 2 papers! **wink

Gambateh! Bahsya!!

能吃，能睡，能笑

2009-11-05T20:24:00.000-08:00

昨晚，我出席了开顺法师的开示，题目是《我要考第一名》。在这佛学讲座里，我受益不浅。它的内容主要是围绕着我们的人生道理。最精彩的是，《我要考第一名》原来与学业一点关系都没有。它所要表达的讯息是.......只有在这一句子内，仔细听哦 =)

“当人家骂我时，我不生气，就是第一名”

很有意思吧？嘻嘻....

除此之外，师父也说，人家讲你、骂你、不爽你时，那是他有问题，不是你有问题，所以不需自找烦恼。

还有，师父要我们当场唱，“听妈妈的话，别让她受伤，想快快长大，才能保护她”。

师父说我们其实不是说听妈妈的话就代表孝顺。孝顺=自爱，我们自爱，不入邪途，不让父母担心，那才是真正的孝顺！

这些software是要实践的，空谈无用。

所以，我的人生目标是：能吃，能睡，能笑。

师父说工作目的与人生目标并不一样，所以我们别混淆哦。

Finally..

2009-09-26T19:37:00.000-07:00

Yes! I have battled for all the subjects..

overall..I am just satisfied with afa n ais...

as for pm...erm...i think the lecturer wont fail us ba..lolx..shud be can pass xD

er..as for efm..sob..i didn't do it well...I had no enough time to complete the section a comprehension..i did it in hurry..hope it is not as worse as I felt..

then..as for the lastly killing subject..AUDITING

it is damn suck...haih...

when i was lying on bed before going for the exam..I wished I can continue sleep to avoid the exam..I was in my dream world..

for sure...I cannot run from it

I felt my answer are all nonsense

I really wished to eat the paper up in exam hall n don't have to answer it..

but, anything is over now..

just told myself..."enjoy ur holiday ba.."

yaya..i shud enjoy it..because it is precious for me since I have struggled for a long semester

I'm looking forward for sth to come along wakaka...

Eat THEM!

2009-09-02T06:12:00.000-07:00

Final examination is coming. I just want to wish everyone including myself, all the best and best of luck in every subject!

There is a sentence voiced out always by my lovely mommy, “煮埋来就吃”...so, v just eat them!! No matter how hard is that, I believe we can overcome it without freaking out!

Hi exam, we are coming!!!

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A day in Cameron Highlands

2009-08-18T03:07:00.000-07:00

Yuhoo..last week i desired to go for a travel...since saw many of my friends went to many many nice places to relax themselves after the bundle of assignments and presentations..some went to club; some went to kl; and some went to genting..i was quite jealous of them actually lolx..as i wish there is an outing which can reenergize myself too..

Unpredictably, there was a sweet time for me yesterday...because of one of my housemate felt that kampar has no more nice food for his lunch..he suddenly got his idea to go to cameron..v got shocked!..but then..it is our style actually..humans being in 1561 love crazy xD

Below is our first station I tried all of these drinks

This milk tea smells good with strawberry taste

It is still ok~ only =X

I like this one..It is suitable for everyone..not so sweet n not so sour lol

Next station Water Cress Valley

We drank soup, ate 茶叶蛋 & 水饺

Next station The T Cafe

There are chocolate banana cake, strawberry cheese cake, chicken pie, chocolate milk shake, strawberry milk shake, strawberry lassi and one more which I ordered- mango lassi. All of them are absolutely nice! **thumbs up

Next station Hotel De La Ferns

Next station Cameron Highlands Resort

Next station It's time to have our dinner~steamboat at 老友记

Cool right? one egg was belonged to ai ling and another one was belonged to lau. Whose eyes do they look like? xD

I was very happy today as I got the champion for "Boiled Egg Queen"! **the ugliest boiled egg for that night

Happy Birthday Lih Herng^^

2009-08-06T02:09:00.000-07:00

yoh.!! Mr. Tan Lih Herng has been 20th years old..what are your wishes for this year?? May I gossip gossip?

hehe just kidding...wishes will not come true after speak it out =)

Here are the cupcakes i designed for you..hope you like it^^

And, these are the presents for you..寿星公

This was the moment v enjoyed in celebrating ur birthday~

Hope you enjoy that night..n may you be well and your life be filled with happiness and joy

All the best in 20th age ^^

On Strike

2009-07-29T02:44:00.000-07:00

Hu..just finished the audit paper this morning..my stress was released "a little bit"...

I've just being the early bird..be the first customer to eat luk luk at night market..I'm suddenly on strike and don't feel like doing anything now..sitting on the chair and dreaming..

Suppose I'm delightful today as I have passed the worried subject..but, I have no idea to do anything..

May be I am exhausted ba...lol...

This post is nothing special also...just felt that I have long time didn't update my blog and desire to write a simple post to record a latest news!!

Lih Herng has cut a new hairstyle!!!haha it looks nice...jia you in your hairstyle

The 1st ever fire practice in UTAR

2009-06-15T21:56:00.000-07:00

wooHoo...we've just had a fire practice in utar this morning...we felt we were being rescued by those officials as the lecture of this morning is so boring...why? You ask me why? I can only answer you that we don't understand "English in Tamil"...haha

These were the situation which I captured just now..

In class, I just told ai ling that we don't have to expose to sunlight since we are not in the secondary school anymore...but...it is not :(

We don't have umbrella...pitiful...

We found something funny here...=D

There was someone opened her 饭格 and start eating...hehehe..pui fuk pui fuk

Because the weather is very hot, we sneaked away to our car and ran away luuu...wakaka

It's ok...as we have signed the attedances xD

日本拖鞋

2009-06-15T21:28:00.000-07:00

日本拖鞋 is a drink..don't believe it? let you see something

Don't be cheated by the color of the drink...u thought it is so special n beautiful? IT'S NOT! ***grab until(zha dao)***annoyed*

I kept stirring it and it is still the same...initially i thought it is so magic..but after that ai ling realized that every glass also the same actually..then both of us said the same word at the moment "Cheh~~~"

This drink is quite nice for me as it tastes strongly of sour n sweet...you can try this drink at Kafe Siam...it is a newly opened cafe opposite of the ktar apartment..

The beverage and the food are pretty good..but the service is damnnnn..speechless

Ai ling and I had been waiting for 1 and a half an hour for our tom yam mee hun...

Firstly, they came normal fried mee hun...we said we had ordered tom yam mee hun (soup)

Secondly, they came the tom yam fried mee hun... "=.=

So, we had to wait for the third round...in finale, it was the correct one

The conclusion is we had spent 2 hours for this dinner...that was 8pm to 10pm..lolx

Can lose weight by eating vege?

2009-06-13T19:53:00.000-07:00

1st gathering in 2126

UTAR Buddhist Society had established vege stall for one week..

Look at the photos above, there were nasi lemak that we couldn't sell out on the 1st day..

So, in order to finish the rice as much as we could, we bought various types of can food to be our dinner..

They consisted of sardine, pork, sotong, soy bean..& potatoes and vege which were taken away from a restaurant

This dinner was simple yet nice and costless than usual..=)

Then on the 2nd day, our dinner was tom yam fried mee hun..

Luckily the vege food had been sold out on the 3rd day..and we went out for dinner

On the whole week, there were 7 persons including my parents said that I'm getting thinner & thinner..

hey man, I'm a 大食狂! I've never on diet...so i kept explaining to my parents to reduce their worriment

I guess it's may be because of I ate vege for almost one week...lunch, tea time & dinner are also vege food..

but it is healthy, I told my mom..

no worry lar..aiyo..haha

I wish I can gain weight too..

May be I should drink the weight gainer that was introduced by Ting to Lih Herng..xD

退步了。。

2009-05-25T23:20:00.000-07:00

此刻的心情，不懂要说些什么，只想说。。退步了

达不到自己的目标，也找不出原因。。

是我看戏太多，还是想太多？哈哈

不懂叻，真的不懂。。

只知道功课难不是借口，但就是偏偏如此地告诉父母。。

觉得自己好不负责任哦。。

唉。。。。。。。。

POH LONG Steamboat

2009-05-21T05:29:00.000-07:00

Look at this picture, is it nice?? It is damn tasty after steamed it using tom yam soup & yok choi soup...It is a special dish on that day...everyone of us ate two pieces kaka...

My hometown, Teluk Intan has a brand new steamboat buffet..The restaurant is called Poh Long Steamboat..

Yesterday, I was informed by ai ling that we are going to eat steamboat at 5pm..I was shocked as i never heard people eat steamboat as well as myself, take dinner so early..

After I met them in the restaurant I only knew that the business operating hour is 5pm to 11pm..

My friends wanted to fully utilize the 5 hours so that the restaurant was worth a lot more to be patronized..lolx not bad xD

Everyone costs RM17.90..

Cheesy Rice

Guess what is it? If I'm not mistaken it's fish mee..haha

Ice-cream

Finally, we did try most of the food and stop eating at around 9.30pm..we had been eating for 4 and a half hour!

Meanwhile, ai ling and me accompanied loo yee to go to TF hypermarket to take something..this is the photo taken by ai ling when we crossed the big road..woohoo! alarmingly dangerous!

After eating, we didn't forget to take some pictures too..haha

In female toilet

Outside the restaurant

My Wednesday on this week was spent on tasty food & nicely friends!!^^

My EXCITED timetable

2009-05-19T05:26:00.000-07:00

Wao!...what a surprise after i heard the timetable from lih herng..
Here is the special TUESDAY for Accounting class T14..

ACCOUNTING INFORMATION SYSTEMS 10:00 AM - 12:00 PM
ADVANCED FINANCIAL ACCOUNTING 2:00 PM - 3:30 PM
ACCOUNTING INFORMATION SYSTEMS 3:30 PM - 5:00 PM
PENGAJIAN MALAYSIA 5:00 PM - 8:00 PM

Look at the highlighted words..there are 3 consecutive classes without break...
6 hours arh!!!
Hopefully every class will end up early before we enter another classroom...
Hopefully..
Hopefully..
& hopefully..
Otherwise, we will be exhausted........................................ =.="

*Luckily, we don't have class on Monday kakaka

双亲节快乐！

2009-05-08T08:53:00.000-07:00

Half an hour ago, I have read an email. The title is 《爱情与家人》. It talks about a story that a son was regret of sending his mom to the old folks home because of his wife. There is a conclusion after the story. I felt it is meaningful and I've attached it here. =)

隨著自己愈長大，
看著父母親臉龐從年輕變憔悴，
頭髮從烏絲變白髮,動作從迅捷變緩慢，多心疼！
　
父母親總是將最好、最寶貴的留給我們，
像蠟燭不停的燃燒自己，照亮孩子！
而我呢？
有沒有騰出一個空間給我的父母，
或者只是在當我需要停泊岸時，
才會想起他們……
其實父母親要的真的不多，
只是一句隨意的問候：爸、媽，你們今天好嗎？」
隨意買的宵夜，煮一頓再普通不過的晚餐;，
睡前幫他們被子，
天冷幫他們添衣服、戴手套……
都能讓他們高興溫馨很久。
　
有時，我常在想：我希望我的子女以後如何對我。
那現在，我有沒有如此對待我的父母？
我相信，人是環環相扣的；
現在，你如何對待你的父母；
以後，你的子女就如何待你。
　
朋友，人世間最難報的就是父母恩，
願我們都能：以反哺之心奉敬父母，以恩之心孝順父母！
愛情可以重新再找尋，但父母一生卻只有一個，
要珍惜、珍重。

I am touched by these few paragraphs. Sometimes, we may forget or ignore about the condition of our parents while we are in outstation. However, i really felt that we must always concern about them. One day, I looked at my dad who was sitting at his shop counter. I felt that he is getting older and older. I was sad when i realized it. But, I know that it is an unchange fact. Thus, I told myself, beside study hard I must care for them more from right now.

Though I can't celebrate mothers' day for my mom this year, but i really do care her. Something to let my mama n papa know. For me, everyday also fathers' and mothers' day. I wish two of you happy and healthy everyday. Cheers~ Buddha bless

Thanksgiving Night I Love You..

2009-04-06T00:43:00.000-07:00

On a calm and tranquil 4th of April 2009, UTAR Buddhist Society Thanksgiving Night was ended successfully. It was filled with touching and tears all the way. After the event, i was touch a lot and got plenty of unspeakable feeling. It is weird. I am very happy n thankful as the event was ended smoothly but on the other hand I am upset as i can't let it go. I enjoyed in the event so much. Though I seldom attend the meetings in preparing the function, my soul is nevertheless pacing towards it.

At first, I worried that my stage decoration group couldn't do the task well. It is because there were only 3 persons in the group. In addition, one of the member was going to perform on stage. She had to practise everyday and lastly she told us that she couldn't involve herself fully in decoration part. She was just can spend some time on it. However, she helped us a lot too. Thanks to her so much^^

We were unable to start the decoration early because we ended our mid-term test on week 11. Thus, we used 1 week to decorate it. Amitabha. We finished it by Saturday and did the final work on stage. Here, i would like to thanks everybody who had lent us your kindly hands in the stage decoration. Without all of you, we won't make it successfully. Besides that, I got something to let Ai Ling know. I would like to tell you that YOU ARE REALLY MY GOOD PARTNER. I felt very happy to co-operate with you. We had co-operated in many decoration since secondary school. I got a lot of memories and experience. I appreciate it very much (from heart T.T).

On top of that, I am grateful to all the people who had involved in performances. From people who did planning, who did slides to who performed on the stage, you all are gorgeous. The performances had touched all the people, so do I. I thought i won't get touch because i have seen the programmes twice. However, my tears rolled down when i watched the third time too.

Besides performers, top 6, logistic group , ceremony group , publicity, sponsorship group, MC and helpers have done excellent jobs also. Like what Ms. Alice said, we are a strong team in UTAR societies. If less one post, the outcome will be influenced and thus different. Everyone is playing an important role.

After this event, I hope everyone will learn grateful to everybody and everything. Life is marvellous and unpredictable. We should appreciate everything we have.

Lastly, I'd like to say thank you to my family, my friends, and Buddha. Thank you for being stand by me. You all guide me a lot.

I'm 20th years old!!

2009-03-18T02:05:00.000-07:00

First of all, i'd like to thanks to my family, lih herng n my dearest friends who had celebrated birthday with me. Lolx...i was delighted =)

Time is passing fast. I am 20 now.

What are my wishes for this year?? hehe i can let you know the first and second one.

Firstly, I wish everyone around me is healthy, happy and calm. Next, I hope I can score well in my every test. Lolx...here, i wish everyone can get good result too.

Guess my dearest friends would know what is the last wish xD

Woohoo...one of my birthday presents is very special in this year. It surprised me!! 0.o

Look at this picture then you will know.

Haha..it's quite invisible. I still couldn't decide when to wear it. What do you think? Any suggestion?

I think i will start using it at the night i get married. Haha..lolx..

佛陀派来的菩萨

2009-02-23T05:14:00.000-08:00

最近，世界各地SK-II品牌代言人首度聚首主持Pitera™ Museum 揭幕仪式，她们有桃井薰 (Kaori Momoi)、刘嘉玲、琦琦、李心洁同台分享她们多年來對SK-II不變的支持與承諾。其中，记者有访问她们如何保养她们的肌肤。

昨天，我在本地电视台8TV,时代达人节目中看到此访问。

在李心洁的访问里，我得到了意想不到的收获。

她说，在我们生活里往往我们会因为别人的一句话或者他人做了一些事情而感到不开心。这时的她就会想说，“他”是佛陀派来的菩萨，来锻炼她，让她变得更有修养，不会去生气，也不会闷闷不乐。

当我听到她这么说，我顿时恍然大悟，心洁她点醒了我。

她说得非常对。我们真的需要懂得保护自己以及爱自己，我们千万不准有让别人伤害到我们的机会。

当我们把敌人看成是贵人的时候，我们真的会感觉舒服很多。

无可否认，佛陀真的把快乐带给了人们，希望我本身可以得到祂更多的教诲。^^

做人的六个标准

2009-02-20T08:31:00.000-08:00

刚刚为了佛学会的会汛而上网找佛教文章。我发现了一个不错的文章，题目是《做人的六个标准》

作者：净慧。

他说，好人的标准就是向善、向上。向善就是不做坏事，只做好事；

向上就是做好人，做圣贤，做伟人，成佛作祖。　　

无论是从佛教的角度来说还是从社会的角度来说，作好一个普通人，至少要达到六条标准。

第一要知因果。

第二要讲良心。

第三要守道德。

第四要立志向。

第五要养识见。

第六要“充才干”。

在这里，我想注重于前三个标准。因果，是一切社会道德、伦理、人性的基础。

最近，社会的政治问题越来越复杂，就比如有关偷拍别人裸照的新闻，已经是触犯道德的最高顶点了。

难道干此事的人不懂什么是因果，良心与道德吗？

伤害了别人，却得到了一些利益。

如果得不到呢？那是损人不利己。反而，自己可能会受因果的惩罚。

惩罚一定会来，只是来得快或来得慢而以。

所以，我们要时时向善和向上，这样社会才会得以安宁。

Happy New Year 新年快乐！！

2009-01-01T07:01:00.000-08:00

转眼间，08年就那么过去了。
对我来说，那08年也不是很快乐。
当然，也有快乐的时候。
但就是不懂为何不开心的事还会浮现在脑海里。
昨天，就是08年的最后一天，我都有收到叫我们把不开心的事情通通忘掉，
别把它带去新的一年的msg。
我也觉得很有道理，我希望我可以忘掉一切不愉快的东西，只记得快乐的！！哈哈。。
也希望不愉快的事情不会再重复，因为我已经尝试过那种滋味与经验，
所以你可以消失了，那种滋味并不好受，也不希望有任何的arguement。
大家都要和平地相处，嘻嘻。
祝大家心想事成哦。。年年行好运。。咔咔
现在是期待除夕夜的时候了。。好期待噢。。团圆饭即将来临
最后再祝个位新年新希望，好事连连来=D

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I Hate Sickness!

2008-12-15T07:11:00.000-08:00

sob sob...i got sick since laz friday..
i thought i got well already after taking medicine because the fever had gone..
but, before i boarded 7am bus to kl on last satur, my sore throat came back..
wuwuwuwu..why does it don't let me go..
i suffer of sore throat now..
moroever, i got cold in the iybcc meeting in selayang..
actually i am quite admirer myself, as i could stand for the sickness in two days
meeting without taking medicine for running nose..
however, i felt it was pathetic because i had to stay in an air-cond meeting room
HU!!...
all in all, im still having sore throat now...
please...i beg u go away now...i want to eat a lot of nice food..
because of u, i can't taste the food..
i can't stop eating u know..so, please be disappear b4 i go for my dream outing lolx

"New knowlegde" that I've gained

2008-11-21T07:41:00.000-08:00

I've been the helper for quarter master in Dharma Youth Camp in my hometown for 3 days..

today is the last day..

In these 3 days, i've learned how to cut some kind of vegetable in faster & nicer way..

kaka..for sure, i was scolded by those sisters sometime..

actually they were not scolding i think..

but their voice are loud & frighten people as well..lolx

however, some of the sisters are very nice..

they are kind-hearted to help & teach you..

from cutting long banana & chocolate cake, i know that we should use long height knive..

when you cut it, you shouldn't cut it like cutting pork..cut for many times to get the shape you wan

but, what we have to do is cut it for once for every piece of cake..so that the cake is intergrity

by the way, i failed to know about this..

could anyone tell me how to pick up the inferior peanut??

peanut which is dark in colour or those which are floating in the water??

My 1st swimming lesson..

2008-10-30T08:15:00.000-07:00

Actually, i intended to write this blog yesterday nite..
but i was too tired..
hehe..now i only realize that..luckily the swimming class is not held everyday..
as v hav to rest & gain the energy back to perform the task of a swimming frog.
lolx..my leg n hand r exhausted!
or mayb im too weak..haha
on top of that, i've gained some new knowledge from my class..
that is, the water of the swimming pool is very dirty actually..
bcz when v swim..the water will go through our noses, mouths & ears..
so, just try to imagine that the water goes through everyone's facial features
u can realize that the water actually is mixed wif many ppl's saliva & bla bla bla
aiks...however, u won't feel how dirty is the water when u'r dipping in the water..
bcz u'r enjoying..hahaha
hmn..so v hav to bathe quickly after it..
if not, u will b same as me..get skin itchy at the following day..wat a stupid gal i'm..
lolx..
i like swimming, though.^V^

人生变化无常。。

2008-10-28T00:00:00.000-07:00

人生真的是变化无常。。本来是美好的一天。。一秒之间可以变得那么的凄惨
是不是因为我的名字有一个“伶”字呢？所以是那么的孤苦伶仃。。
以为自己是真的那么的潇洒，可以什么都不理。。其实是个自欺欺人的人，自我沉醉
我只想找回我失去的安全感，这下我才知道原来是那么的难。
我从来没有想要去blame任何人，想到最后要怪的只有自己蠢，EQ超级低。
或许我比较适合做一个孤独者，谈恋爱不属于我。。

dum dum dum!

2008-10-27T23:28:00.000-07:00

hehe..im gonna start my swimming class tomorrow..
im quite happy..
because i have been looking for it long time ago..
i always don't have the chance to learn swimming..
i believe that swimming is one of my hobby after i know it..
however, there'r only 2 classes every week..
that is wed n satur..
at first, i thought it is a continue classes & i can finish it early..
there are only 8 classes..n now, the classes are separated into 4 weeks..
hmn..juzt feel got a little bit din fulfill my will...kaka
but it's still ok..we need to c whether the coach is free anot oso wat..correct?
and, it makes my holiday full of activities too..
by the way, i wish say thank to my best friend, ai ling & her mom as well
to contact the coach and other thgs else..
thank so much!
hehe..hopefully everything is going wellin the classes & i can be a successfull swimming frog! =)

要享受人生!

2008-10-25T20:18:00.000-07:00

刚看完了一场选美比赛，心中浮现了几个疑问与领悟到了一些东西。Hmn...其实选美主要目的什么？我想主办当局是为了要栽培人才，培育新的主持人，好让马来西亚娱乐圈有顶尖的人才。至于佳丽们，我想她们是想看看自己有多少的本事，能在她们人生中留下一个美丽的回忆。我本身觉得哦，参加这种比赛是需要很大的勇气，而且那人本身还要很享受舞台和喜欢被别人注目，成为场合上的焦点。

我每次看到电视机上有佳丽们的广告，我都会在想为何她们会要去参加？又要牺牲读书或做工的时间，还有花费一大笔的钱。Hmn..可能真的是要test一下她们的实力吧！

哈哈，其实我这次写blog的主要目的呢，是想说世间的事务啊，真是难预测。凭她们的表现，我觉得X号，X号和X号会拿冠亚季军，连电视评判也预测是她们，但结果真是爆冷。就连我和姐姐不是很喜欢的都入选，还拿冠军天呢！所以我觉得很多事情我们都不能控制，都不能如愿所偿，就好像我多盼望她不入选，但偏偏却坐上了冠军宝座。所以我觉得万事就顺其自然吧，有些东西并不能强求，做人就重要就是开心！当然，有时也会遇到你不喜欢的东西。那时，就对自己说我们要对自己好一点，要享受我们的人生，要开心！因为佛教有说，“人生是苦的”，如果我们还那么执著于一些小事件，弄到自己更辛苦，不如洒脱一点，不去理会或接受它，那不是更好吗？嘻嘻。

总而言之，我们要享受自己的人生！！！

A starter!

2008-10-24T08:28:00.000-07:00

Hi, this is my first blog since 2 years ago. I still remember that the first time i wrote the blog was when i fall into a black hole. It was the first & ever down moment in my life. Haha..let's don't talk about that because it was over. what is important now is everthing is back to the position. Cheer~

From now on, i will write my blog whenever i am free. I'll write in chinese too ( depends on my mood, because my english is not so well =p). Lolx.

Hmn..i felt writing blog is a pretty relax activity, as we can express our feeling through an on-9 method. For sure, we must be willing to share with others. And, accept & listen to everyone's comment. Here, i'd like to thank to my important person in my life who brought me into this blogger. What a nice sharing place! hehe..hopefully i will write my blog consistently because i am a lazy person who is having another surname, "zhu" as well.

Good luck & all the best to everyone!!Including me, myself^^